My Story

Her Excellency Brandy Tookes is a Word of Life Ministries International (WOLMI) Peace Ambassador to the United Nations, a Lieutenant Commander in the U.S. Navy Reserve, and Founder of Leading with Etiquette. A native of Trinidad and Tobago, Brandy is a certified etiquette consultant, a level 1 ICF certified Professional and Executive Coach, and a two-time Amazon best-selling author. She also holds a professional certification and a master’s degree both in human resources.

 

Brandy’s work sits at the intersection of leadership and civility—positioning etiquette not simply as a social skill, but as a powerful tool for influence, connection, and peacebuilding. Through Leading with Etiquette, she delivers business, dining, and social etiquette training that enhances presence, strengthens relationships, and cultivates environments grounded in respect. Her signature coaching program offers transformational insights, equipping individuals with practical tools that drive change.

 

Brandy champions etiquette as a pathway to building relationships—demonstrating that how we show up, speak, and engage with others has the power to advance peace in our homes, community and the world.